My son and stepsons have heard me talk plenty. I try to share life lessons and give good, wise instruction. I even admit areas where I have made mistakes and regrets.
You may do the same thing with your kids.
You may also find your kids have the ability to tune you out at times. Voices other than yours can become quite loud – friends, celebrities, random people on the Internet.
So, how can we as fathers give solid input to our kids without directly giving it?
All you need is a chalk-board, chalk and Google.
This week (our first week back to school) marks the beginning of the weekly (or semi-weekly, or daily) quote of the day. Many of you may have already done this, but it is new for us.
Long story short, I picked a Lou Holtz quote for the first week – it has some extra meaning to my stepsons. Coach Holtz said something i would like to tell all four boys, but coming from him it may have some additional impact.
If you were to look at the actual board in our home, it would have my crappy handwriting and no frills. Just a simple message and a potential conversation starter.
I found this by picking a public figure, typing his name and the word “quotes” into Google, and letting it rip. For the graphic in today’s post, I did the same search in Google Images.
You could simplify and write out or print out a quote and tape it to a bedroom door or mirror.
You could put it on a Post-It note in a lunchbox.
You could save it as the background image on their phone or tablet.
Just mix it up,
My hope is my son and stepsons will respect me and listen to my counsel. But I also know they need a variety of messengers, and we can pick who some of those people speaking into their lives are and what they have to say.
Have you ever had a quote board in your home? If so, which quote has elicited the greatest reaction from your kids?